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Before pulling out the ‘Over The Hill’ paraphernalia, consider this landmark as what it really is: a milestone to celebrate. A surprise party could be the best option. It may not be a surprise that the 50th birthday is coming, but the party should be enough to offset any feelings about growing older.

1. Consider the guest of honour

Is he an outdoors person? Is she in need of something special? Who are the closest friends and family? The more you can find out about the birthday wishes, the better the party will be.

2. Consider the guest list

Will this be a small gathering of a few close friends or a large party that requires a huge venue? Ask guests to RSVP, and make note of the surprise nature of the affair if applicable. Also on the invitation, let them know whether gifts are appropriate and if they ought to be of a humorous theme.

3. Consider the timings & particulars

The date, time, and place can all be figured out once the guest list is drafted. Decide on how extravagant the party will be.

4. Consider The Party Setting

Here are a few ideas to keep everyone smiling:

• A surprise party (host a private party in a memorable venue)
• A weekend away with friends
• Take a fishing trip
• Schedule a golf outing
• Tour a historical landmark or monument
• Have an open house where guests may drift in and out and socialise
• Watch a play at the theatre
• Visit a spa for a day to be pampered

With the focus on the birthday guest, everyone else should remember to keep the birthday wishes in the forefront of their memory. Make the entire affair about the happiness of the person whose birthday is being celebrated. He or she will do the same for you when it is your turn.

5. Start planning & make it memorable!

Unfortunately, the sky is probably not the limit on everyone’s finances. Do be certain of whether or not the trip will be cost prohibitive for most of the guests before sending invitations.

If it will be an affair that requires overnight accommodations, it probably will require a good deal of planning to make it a  complete surprise for the birthday guest.

However, you can spring it on the unsuspecting person at a special dinner. If it is a smaller gathering like a concert, make an effort with the other guests beforehand on whether or not the birthday guest will pay that evening. Prior planning is essential for making everything run smoothly.